与父母沟通的作文1000字
Children are their parents' most prized resource,particularly nowadays parents have only one child.Therefore,parents give everything to their kids,sometimes they are spoiling kids.
However,things are not always like this."You never listen to me" is a complaint heard as often from children as parents.Good communication helps children and parents to develop confidence,feelings of self-worth,and good relationships with others.Try these tips:
Teach children to listen...gently touch a child before you talk...say their name.
Speak in a quiet voice...whisper sometimes so children have to listen...they like this.
Look a child in the eyes so you can tell when they understand...bend or sit down...become the child's size.
Practice listening and talking:Talk with your children about school and their friends.
Respect children and use a courteous tone of voice.If we talk to our children as we are good friends,our youngsters may be more likely take us as confidants.
Use door openers that invite children to say more about an incident or their feelings."I see," "Oh," "tell me more," "No kidding," "Really," "Mmmmhmmmmm," "Say that again,I want to be sure I understand you."
Praise builds a child's confidence and reinforces communication.Unkind words tear children down and teach them that they just aren't good enough.
Children are never too old to be told they are loved.Saying "I love you" is important.Writing it in a note provides the child with a reminder that he can hold on to.
Give your undivided attention when your children want to talk to you.Don't read,watch TV,fall asleep or make yourself busy with other tasks when talking with kids.
All in all,as parents,we should respect our kids and listen to them,talk to them as friends.We should alwasys be there to share with kids their joys and sorrows.
与父母沟通的作文1000字
Children are their parents' most prized resource,particularly nowadays parents have only one child.Therefore,parents give everything to their kids,sometimes they are spoiling kids.
However,things are not always like this."You never listen to me" is a complaint heard as often from children as parents.Good communication helps children and parents to develop confidence,feelings of self-worth,and good relationships with others.Try these tips:
Teach children to listen...gently touch a child before you talk...say their name.
Speak in a quiet voice...whisper sometimes so children have to listen...they like this.
Look a child in the eyes so you can tell when they understand...bend or sit down...become the child's size.
Practice listening and talking:Talk with your children about school and their friends.
Respect children and use a courteous tone of voice.If we talk to our children as we are good friends,our youngsters may be more likely take us as confidants.
Use door openers that invite children to say more about an incident or their feelings."I see," "Oh," "tell me more," "No kidding," "Really," "Mmmmhmmmmm," "Say that again,I want to be sure I understand you."
Praise builds a child's confidence and reinforces communication.Unkind words tear children down and teach them that they just aren't good enough.
Children are never too old to be told they are loved.Saying "I love you" is important.Writing it in a note provides the child with a reminder that he can hold on to.
Give your undivided attention when your children want to talk to you.Don't read,watch TV,fall asleep or make yourself busy with other tasks when talking with kids.
All in all,as parents,we should respect our kids and listen to them,talk to them as friends.We should alwasys be there to share with kids their joys and sorrows.
与父母沟通的作文1000字
Children are their parents' most prized resource,particularly nowadays parents have only one child.Therefore,parents give everything to their kids,sometimes they are spoiling kids.
However,things are not always like this."You never listen to me" is a complaint heard as often from children as parents.Good communication helps children and parents to develop confidence,feelings of self-worth,and good relationships with others.Try these tips:
Teach children to listen...gently touch a child before you talk...say their name.
Speak in a quiet voice...whisper sometimes so children have to listen...they like this.
Look a child in the eyes so you can tell when they understand...bend or sit down...become the child's size.
Practice listening and talking:Talk with your children about school and their friends.
Respect children and use a courteous tone of voice.If we talk to our children as we are good friends,our youngsters may be more likely take us as confidants.
Use door openers that invite children to say more about an incident or their feelings."I see," "Oh," "tell me more," "No kidding," "Really," "Mmmmhmmmmm," "Say that again,I want to be sure I understand you."
Praise builds a child's confidence and reinforces communication.Unkind words tear children down and teach them that they just aren't good enough.
Children are never too old to be told they are loved.Saying "I love you" is important.Writing it in a note provides the child with a reminder that he can hold on to.
Give your undivided attention when your children want to talk to you.Don't read,watch TV,fall asleep or make yourself busy with other tasks when talking with kids.
All in all,as parents,we should respect our kids and listen to them,talk to them as friends.We should alwasys be there to share with kids their joys and sorrows.
与父母沟通的作文1000字
沟通——是人与人之间架起信任友谊的桥梁。因为有了沟通我们才会有这么多情深义重的好朋友;因为有了沟通，我们才会有负责任的家长;因为有了沟通，我们才会懂得感恩!
小时候，我家里很早很早就购进了一台电脑，而且还上了宽带网。那时候，爸爸、妈妈上班时，他们就把我锁在家里，我就像只笼中鸡。渐渐地，我开始注意起家里的那台“铁家伙”——因为它，爸爸远隔千里却能知道外国发生了什么惊天动地的大事;因为它，爸爸随时都可以看电影、玩游戏;因为它，妈妈交了那么多的网友。慢慢的，我在其他同学的“指导”下，也玩起了一款叫“传奇”的网络游戏，因为我的技术好，所以，我的级别越来越高。由刚开始的杀鸡为生的人变成了一个武林高手。我的技术好，装备也好，因此在网络里许多人都想“拜我为师”。我小小的虚荣心和自尊心得到了满足。有时候我输了一场比赛后，就不断的买更好的装备，寻找那个人“报仇”。这样恶性循环下去，我便对游戏的痴迷度也越来越高。即使小伙伴在外面玩十分精彩的游戏我也无动于衷。因此，我便使自己陷入了一种寂寞的状态，使我变成了一个只会玩游戏的人。
幸亏爸爸、妈妈及时发现了我这一情况，便主动找我谈心，鼓励我说出心里话，这时，我心里的寂寞再也忍不住了，便主动说：“我很孤独，我想玩电脑游戏。”爸爸、妈妈听到我说的这些话后，主动为我做思想工作。通过这次谈话，我终于明白了现实生活里的事物也很精彩，依赖这个虚拟世界是弱者的表现。同时，我也明白了爸爸、妈妈的一片苦心。
通过这件事，我明白了沟通是打开心结的密码，沟通是人生道路的铺垫者，因为有沟通才会有我们精彩的今天!希望大家多多沟通，共同创建美好的未来。
与父母沟通的作文1000字
Communication is common and important in our daily life. All of us live with others in the society and no one can live cut off from it. Everyday, we must talk to others to give and get information, but how can we communicate with others? Some people claim that they don’t know what to say and how to speak to others, strangers especially.
I think first you should find a topic that both of you are interested in. Then, pay attention to your manners, speed, pitch, expressions and your body language. You should make others feel comfortable, so that they are willing to talk to you. Last but not the least, being a good listener. Listening to others shows your respect to them. Only when they heard, they want to talk. So do you. Before you talk, listening to others first.
与父母沟通的作文1000字
东北师范大学大三学生小董已经连续3个假期没回家了。“我不愿见父母，每次站到回家的站台上，似乎都是一次煎熬。”“他们根本不理解我，我也没脸见他们。我觉得，这3年来自己一事无成，我也想学习，可没有动力了，有时我真不知道怎么办。”小董一脸伤感：“我能做的就是跟女朋友倾诉，我认为，只有她才能了解自己，才能真正和自己交流”。
像小董一样，记者在采访中发现，很多大学生都表示“和父母交流有困难”。据报道，去年3月，上海市心理咨询中心曾在市内主要高校大学生群体中做过一项调查，结果显示，约有69%的大学生感到无法与父母交流和沟通，其中27%的学生表示从不与父母交流。
无独有偶，日前举行的第二届上海市重点(示范性)中学学生会论坛上也传出消息，“当代青少年与父母之间存在明显的沟通障碍”，有63%的高中学生认为心里话只能和同学说，与父母说的只占21.9%。看来，大学生难与父母沟通，是在高中就“打下了基础”。
有人认为，处于叛逆期的高中生，面对高考(Q吧)压力和父母对其学习成绩的严格要求，易出现沟通障碍，而大学生的生理与心理都已趋近或达到成熟，与父母交流理应比高中生顺畅。但现实情况显然并非如此，采访中，记者发现，许多大学生仍然对父母有一种或抵触或敬畏的情绪，他们大都反对父母的教育方式，难以忍受“父母的不理解”。
东北师范大学的孙同学，父母双双下岗，每天都要为生计发愁，每次打电话来，就是问问学习好不好，学费够不够。“我也知道，他们根本无暇顾及我心里的感受，我还能说什么呢?说多了，岂不是又给他们增添心理负担?渐渐地，就感觉心里和父母隔着一层。”
随着工作节奏不断加快，竞争压力日益增大，许多父母不得不将更多的时间和精力投入到工作中。家住长春的李女士就对记者说，由于工作比较忙，孩子很小的时候就请了保姆。一直以来她都觉得，自己给孩子的已经比同年龄孩子得到的多很多，但她却发现与孩子之间的隔阂慢慢升级，她觉得很不理解，想改变，但力不从心。
大学生不愿与父母交流，也有自身的原因。长春大学大二的刘同学对记者说：“大学里事情很多，我却找不到生活的目标，非常郁闷，没心情和父母交谈。”学法律的小张也眉头紧锁：“上了大学，开始参加了很多社团，后来逐渐放弃了，再后来，就忙着应付各
种各样的过级、考试，很少和家里人交心。一是自己话本来就少，顶多哼哈两句，再者，也没必要让他们知道我的情况，那样反而让他们操心。”“应该说，在15岁到22岁左右的青春期，与父母产生距离，对他们表现出冷淡，这是青少年成长的正常表现。处于青春期的大学生们，也需要有一段时间让自己思考，去寻找并且发现自己。”吉林大学高等教育研究所的杨淑琴老师认为，对于大学生来说，要培养良好的个性、建立良好的家庭关系，还应主动找时间和父母聊天，体验交流的快乐。
